For a bride-to-be who is planning a first wedding, the number of choices can seem overwhelming. Common sense often goes out the window when decisions that affect the wedding’s bottom line must be made. How can you plan a wedding, stay on budget and still have what you want?
In most cases, wedding planning is a complex negotiation. If the bride and groom alone are paying for the wedding, decisions are simplified, because the bride and groom have no one to answer to, other than themselves. Couples are usually more aware of the limits on their finances, so making money-related decisions isn’t so hard.
One strategy aimed at keeping the bottom line intact is for the bride and groom to plan the wedding jointly. Most men aren’t interested in colours and cocktail napkins, but this can sometimes work in a couple’s favour. By keeping a perspective on the most important things, couples can better stick to the budget and learn some valuable lessons about negotiation.
Always determine a list of priorities for the wedding event. Put the power of competition to work for you. By knowing what the must-have expenses are, you’ll be less likely to come under the spell of a last-minute budget-buster. Focus on the most important things and make decisions accordingly. This is another area in which joint planning helps. By having to clear an added expense with the other party, or understanding that a new addition will come at the expense of a priority that’s already on the list, you retain your awareness of your ongoing expenses, and how much money the budget still contains.
As new expenses arise, you can also look for ways to lower the cost of existing or upcoming expenses, or plan for acceptable substitutes. In most cases, you’ll find that wedding planning isn’t an all-or-nothing deal. You may have to reduce the size, compromise on colour, location, or style, but you can often put together an event that you like and that your guests enjoy as long as you know what your budget is and where your priorities are.
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